Love destroys insecurity

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Morning satsang at Bidadi ashram

Thursday, 05 April 2012

Money is becoming a huge problem in my relationship with my boyfriend. How can we resolve these conflicts and develop a "team strategy" in the area of finance? – Victoria, Oklahoma, USA

Victoria, understand, the whole questions shows the shallowness in your relationship. When you are really in love, money becomes useless. Suddenly it will not matter to your life anymore. I am not saying that you will throw all the money in the streets. No. But suddenly your thought is not centered on money anymore. It is centered on the other person. That is one of the best thing that can happen to a human being. You should experience that space at least once in your life, where money just suddenly loses its power over you.

See, man has only two kinds of thinking – 1. Money centric 2. fulfillment centric. When you are in love, the fulfillment center is awakened, and it does not let you think about future security. Even if you have one question about future security, you are not in love. You still need to go a long way. When your love is awakened, insecurity gives way. Victoria, I am really afraid that you are not in love. Somewhere, it is an arrangement of convenience, not love. So I want you to review the whole thing, the very relationship itself. You are not yet in love. Go on continuing with your search. I bless you that you will really fall in love.


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