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Morning satsang at Bidadi ashram

Sunday, 25 March 2012

Q: How can I forget my ex-boyfriend? - Lynette

Lynette, I tell you, unless you find the man within, you cannot forget your ex-boyfriend. Don’t think that are there 3.5 billion men in the world, at least 2.5 billion young men to choose from, you can choose any one! Unless you experience the completion inside, you cannot forget your x or y or z. Till then, the more you try to forget, the more you will remember.

Please understand, each man carries certain feminine principles and energy inside, and each woman carries certain masculine principles and energy inside. Only when the energies are met and merged, fulfillment happens. Only then you can forget your x, y chromosomes and relax in z. Z means zest. Understand, however many men you may change externally, you will not find a solution.

Changing external men or women and trying to find a solution is the Western method. How long this can go on? Look in. Find the root - why your boyfriend has become ex-boyfriend. Because, he is not fitting with your inner idea of boyfriend. The idea, the visualization you carry about your boyfriend did not fit with your actual boyfriend. I tell you, unless you correct the fantasy and accept the real person in your life, you are never going to settle down. You may forget your ex-boyfriend and catch another boyfriend. But as long as the fantasy is there, you will not experience peace. You will only have ex, ex, ex that’s all.


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